Biscuit chilling with the dildo’s and vibrator. You know…as she does (at The Center For Sexual Pleasure And Health)

Biscuit chilling with the dildo’s and vibrator. You know…as she does (at The Center For Sexual Pleasure And Health)

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Melissa Harris-Perry went THERE! Her hat, whip and cuffs were in reference to a segment on today’s episode of The Melissa Harris-Perry Show where her panel discussed female sexuality, whether or not a sexual pill for women is trying to use medicine to cure something cultural, fear/shame regarding female sexuality and more.
I find this image empowering because here she is, a Black woman, discussing sex on a major show, with humor, confidence and intelligence, and not being used as reference for “deviant” sex, as Black women, heterosexual or LBTQ are, yet at the same time, visually speaking to sexual practice often deemed deviant regardless of who practices it. Brilliant.

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Melissa Harris-Perry went THERE! Her hat, whip and cuffs were in reference to a segment on today’s episode of The Melissa Harris-Perry Show where her panel discussed female sexuality, whether or not a sexual pill for women is trying to use medicine to cure something cultural, fear/shame regarding female sexuality and more.

I find this image empowering because here she is, a Black woman, discussing sex on a major show, with humor, confidence and intelligence, and not being used as reference for “deviant” sex, as Black women, heterosexual or LBTQ are, yet at the same time, visually speaking to sexual practice often deemed deviant regardless of who practices it. Brilliant.

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The CSPH: Sex Trivia in Boston!

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Get ready for a saucier type of trivia night that you won’t find anywhere else. Join The CSPH team at The Kinsale Pub and restaurant in Boston on Tuesday, May 7 for an evening of sexuality questions that will titillate your intellectual senses and get you excited about learning more….

Yay! We are finally expanding to Boston!

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lithefider:

Things I need when I can justify another toy purchase :’D  Found this on a blog, it’s an artist made dildo from Free Range Silicone (<- Etsy store link)

LOOK HOW DANG PRETTY

hahaha!

… That is a squid, dildo, penis…

Okay then. :S

cant tell if dildo or actually trying to make squid

if you put it in all the way you would have tentacles coming out of your butt how do you not laugh at this NO MORE SERIOUS SEX EVER

Holy shit the colours.  Kind of want.

…all I can think of is this being put all the way in and… and… Octopussy…

Well, that and some fanart I saw once of an asari… and let’s just say her head wasn’t the only place she had tentacles.

It’s so pretty…

Now I need to see this in porn :(

Reblogging cause they are so pretty

(via hiohmegan)

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“Masturbation: the Happy Handshake” - printable version

Reblogging the brochure hub and I made for our son, this time without grid lines. I’d finished it at 9 am, was exhausted from staying up all night to complete it, and didn’t think to remove said lines. For a description as to what the brochure entails, please see the original post and any comments added to it. :)

Lastly, I wish that I could provide links to our source material. I do, but hub and I…let’s just say there’s not enough brain bleach in the world for us to go digging around in our browser history to figure out which sites gave us the clinical information we wanted. A bit of the text, maybe 20%, was written by us. The rest and all of the illustrations were found online. Miss Pillsbury, of course, belongs to “Glee” and was only used since my son could relate to her. And hey, she and her pamphlets on the show are awesome! (Thank you, graphic artist that designs them. :)

One more lastly, I am truly touched by the positive feedback. Hub and I, we’re just parents trying to raise and teach our son better than we were and that includes all areas such as sex education and being body positive.

Joseph Winn and I at SSTAR. 2 years ago we met for the first time here and here we are again.  (at Hyatt Regency Baltimore)

Joseph Winn and I at SSTAR. 2 years ago we met for the first time here and here we are again. (at Hyatt Regency Baltimore)

The CSPH: Sexology Reading Group

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Are you interested in learning more about human sexuality, sex therapy, and how to improve your clinical practice, but aren’t sure you want to become an AASECT certified sexuality educator, counselor, or therapist?

Are you already providing sexuality education, counseling, or therapy, but…

The CSPH: Word of the Day: Aftercare

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Though it can take many forms, aftercare is most commonly the process of attending to a partner after a BDSM scene or activity. Participating in scenes involving power exchange, discipline, bondage, or consensual nonconsent (among many other behaviors and dynamics) can bring up feelings that…

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Transgender &amp; Genderqueer identities page from the GENDER book
Hey Boston, how’s the research going? Remember, as you’re learning about all of these identities, that they are only the tip of the iceberg. It’s okay to identify simply as transgender, as a mix of those identities, none at all, genderqueer like me, or make up something that fits you better! 
Bigender describes those who alternate between two distinct gender roles. May be crossdressers or drag performers.
Intergender describes those who identify between the traditional masculine and feminine genders.
Ambigender describes those who identify to some degree with both the masculine and feminine genders
Genderfluid describes those whose gender behavior and presentation changes depending on the situation or their mood. 
Pangender describes those who identify with all the genders.
Polygender describes someone who identifies with many (though not all) of the genders.
Agender describes those who identify with having no gender or a neutral gender. They may present androgynously or seek to make their bodies more gender-neutral to match their identity. Sometimes also called neutrois.
Third gender describes those who identify with a (often non-Western) gender that is neither masculine nor feminine. See “gender across cultures” on page 6 for more!
Genderqueer describes those whose identities fall outside of the widely accepted gender binaries. Many of the identities [above] could also be described as genderqueer.
They have a great diversity of expression and presentation. An individual who identifies as genderqueer could display few gendered cues to many (potentially conflicting) ones. It’s not really about how they look, though. What genderqueer individuals all share is a nonconforming gender identity and an opposition to gender systems that they perceive as strict or limiting.
ed note: We affirm that labels are starting points for further conversation. A single word can never encapsulate a whole person. You probably have lots of intersecting identities that only scratch the surface of who you are. Gender is one part - what are some others? 
We humbly acknowledge the limited scope of these pages. If you don’t see your identity words here, we empower you to tell us so we may include it in the final version!
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(cc) the GENDER book project. in progress snapshot presented for community editing and feedback. Please direct all notes to mel@thegenderbook.com or comment using disqus on the original post to ensure your voice gets heard. Thanks!



Just a little reminder that gender is not a binary.  Handy little group of definitions too, for any of our followers struggling with their gender identity.  And it was nice that they acknowledged the list is a start, not an end, point, and that we are so much more than just our gender, whatever that may be.

redefiningbodyimage:

cisprivilege:

thegenderbook:

Transgender & Genderqueer identities page from the GENDER book

Hey Boston, how’s the research going? Remember, as you’re learning about all of these identities, that they are only the tip of the iceberg. It’s okay to identify simply as transgender, as a mix of those identities, none at all, genderqueer like me, or make up something that fits you better! 

Bigender describes those who alternate between two distinct gender roles. May be crossdressers or drag performers.

Intergender describes those who identify between the traditional masculine and feminine genders.

Ambigender describes those who identify to some degree with both the masculine and feminine genders

Genderfluid describes those whose gender behavior and presentation changes depending on the situation or their mood. 

Pangender describes those who identify with all the genders.

Polygender describes someone who identifies with many (though not all) of the genders.

Agender describes those who identify with having no gender or a neutral gender. They may present androgynously or seek to make their bodies more gender-neutral to match their identity. Sometimes also called neutrois.

Third gender describes those who identify with a (often non-Western) gender that is neither masculine nor feminine. See “gender across cultures” on page 6 for more!

Genderqueer describes those whose identities fall outside of the widely accepted gender binaries. Many of the identities [above] could also be described as genderqueer.

They have a great diversity of expression and presentation. An individual who identifies as genderqueer could display few gendered cues to many (potentially conflicting) ones. It’s not really about how they look, though. What genderqueer individuals all share is a nonconforming gender identity and an opposition to gender systems that they perceive as strict or limiting.

ed note: We affirm that labels are starting points for further conversation. A single word can never encapsulate a whole person. You probably have lots of intersecting identities that only scratch the surface of who you are. Gender is one part - what are some others? 

We humbly acknowledge the limited scope of these pages. If you don’t see your identity words here, we empower you to tell us so we may include it in the final version!

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(cc) the GENDER book project. in progress snapshot presented for community editing and feedback. Please direct all notes to mel@thegenderbook.com or comment using disqus on the original post to ensure your voice gets heard. Thanks!

Just a little reminder that gender is not a binary.  Handy little group of definitions too, for any of our followers struggling with their gender identity.  And it was nice that they acknowledged the list is a start, not an end, point, and that we are so much more than just our gender, whatever that may be.

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